I can't visit any more...

Dad sits in bed just staring off into space. He doesn't speak, doesn't move, doesn't listen. I'm not sure what's going on with him. He's degraded, in my opinion, quite a lot. He doesn't get up to go to the bathroom, he doesn't even tell Mom when he has to go. He's curled up in a fetal position in bed, just laying there. I thought maybe he would have a chance at home, but it's beyond that now.

I can't bring daughter here. It's too difficult for me. I hate to see Dad in this situation. I'd rather see him in a long term care facility where they can look after his needs. Maybe I've totally screwed up. Maybe this was a bad plan and we should have put him in LTC a long time ago. There's no one else who can help.