It's cold out there...

It's cold here. My car is acting up. Not sure if I'll be able to make the 45 minute trip into the city to see Dad this weekend. If I don't have the car looked at, it'll mean trouble. I need the car.

Rumours - Just like Hollywood...

Seems someone feels like spreading rumours.

Apparently my Dad's brother, Uncle M, has been telling people that my Mom rarely sees my Dad and when she does, it's only for a few hours. He was doing this a some function. However, he didn't realize that my Mom's brother, Uncle C, was at the same function and overheard the conversation. Uncle C pulled Uncle M aside and let him have it. Hopefully some of the correct information made it through to Uncle M's thick head.

Now the question is, all this took place out of the country where my Uncle M lives. The only way he could have been mis-informed of my Mother's visitation to my Dad is through some family members. So, who is telling fibs? My bet is on Brother or Dad's sisters. If you're going to talk about Mom and Dad, tell the real story. But, like Hollywood, everyone likes good gossip.

Depression...

I've come to realize that I've been depressed for the last few months. It has been a gradual process, this depression. Dad's situation has been on my mind constantly. Is this his life? Is this my mother's life? What is to become of either of them? Is this my future? What if my partner had a stroke like Dad's? What would become of my life? What about Daughter? What if? What if? What if?

Long time hello...

Happy New Year to those observing Chinese calendar. It's been many months since posting anything. Not much has changed except the passage of time. Christmas and birthdays have come and gone. Some days are better than others. Some visits are better than others. Nothing much has changed. Nothing much is different. I don't expect much to change either.