We had a family meeting with the hospital. Mom let me know it wasn't just about Dad's health. Brother has taken it upon himself to be rude, aggressive, insulting and problematic for the nursing staff. I guess he, like the rest of us, is getting frustrated with the lack of information and the frequent use of sedatives. The hospital wanted everyone to know that information legally can only be disseminated to the power of attorney - Mom. Brother is not very happy at the meeting as much of the conversation was being addressed to his behavior.
He claims that Mom is unable to provide or pass on the information that the various doctors are telling her. He says she doesn't know or can't remember when he questions her. She asks him if he ever calls her to ask. He says yes, every day. Mom disagrees with that statement. Brother never calls Mom. Not even to find out how she is doing and if she needs food. Or comfort. Or a hug.
A new doctor took over the case from the admitting doctor. She let us know what she is doing. We leave comforted in knowing the doctor has a plan and the hosptial wants to help him recover. Brother disappears after the meeting not saying goodbye to anyone.
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